What to Expect
You arrive, sit down, and listen. Meetings usually open with readings, then members share their experience. You are never required to speak. If asked, you can simply say, "I'm here to listen."
At a typical AA meeting, people gather in a church hall, community room, office, club room, or online meeting space. The meeting usually begins with a few standard readings, followed by members sharing their experience with drinking and recovery. As a newcomer, you are not required to speak. If the meeting goes around the room, it is completely okay to say, "I'm just here to listen today," or simply pass. You do not need to tell your story, answer questions, or introduce yourself in any special way. Most meetings last about an hour. There may be coffee, and people may introduce themselves before or after the meeting. Newcomers are usually welcomed, but you should not be put on the spot. You do not need to bring anything or know anyone. Just showing up is enough. Find a meeting near you at /meetings/.